You may decide after today’s post that we can no longer be friends, but I decided it was worth it.
And if you read this post and find you agree with me, won’t you give it a share? I’m hoping to reach as many folks as I can.
You see, my husband and I—well, mostly him—worked on a project during his vacation last week. When he finished, he admitted, “It’s not exactly Pinterest-worthy.”
Pinterest-worthy...what is that, exactly?
After he said it, I knew I had to share this project in its raw form.
Why, you ask? Because I believe social media has changed us—and not always for the better.
We see photos of pristine homes on Instagram, Pinterest, and elsewhere, and it can make us feel like our own homes don’t measure up. But here’s the thing: who decides what’s “worthy”? Those of us who follow, like, and share those perfectly curated photos do.
Don’t get me wrong; I’ve been guilty of it myself. I used to save every photo I liked. Go ahead, chuckle. I’m laughing at myself too.
The problem is that many “influencers” showcase products they get for free, sometimes placed into homes that don’t reflect their real lives. Not all of us have DIY husbands, can tackle big projects on our own, or have limitless budgets to make our homes look like that. I can’t; can you?
Have you ever priced out something you’ve seen online only to find it’s wildly expensive? I have. Those so-called “easy” projects often turn into massive undertakings—and big money.
For us, saving for retirement was always the goal, despite the fact mine came sooner than expected. I can’t justify huge expenses, especially when my husband still gets up every day to do the daily grind. We were supposed to be doing that together, but life threw us a curveball.
So, after this project was done, I thanked him for spending his vacation building a large pantry. Yes, we finally have a pantry big enough to see all our dry goods in one place. Hallelujah!
I haven’t quite figured out how to organize it yet, but I’ll share the progress as it unfolds. I don’t feel the need to share only “finished” projects anymore.
Why? Because that’s not how life works around here.
We take our time. My husband doesn’t want to come home and jump straight into DIYs so I’ll have something to share on my blog. Trust me, it took me a while to learn that. I used to feel anxious, like I always needed a new project.
Maybe the last few years have changed me, but I’m more laid back now than I’ve been in a while. It reminds me of my early twenties.
I became a bundle of nerves after those early years. Looking back, I see now that no one should live like that. We need downtime. We need to relax. Life isn’t as long as we think.
So, my message for today is: who cares if your home isn’t Pinterest-worthy? I’m not worried about it anymore, and you shouldn’t be either. Life is meant to be lived, and living with an active pup means our home has taken a beating over the years. I used to cringe at every scratch and chip.
Now? It’s just part of our story.
Don’t worry if you’re not there yet. It took me years to get to this place, and my husband’s work on our pantry helped with that too. It was a real “lightbulb moment.”
So, if you feel the pressure of “My house isn’t internet-worthy,” you can rest assured that mine isn’t either. And here I am, sharing it week after week.
I’ll step down from my soapbox now. Let’s get into how a closet became our pantry.
We’d always planned to turn this closet into a pantry, but we had different ideas about how to do it. I envisioned shelves around the closet; he saw something else. I’m glad he convinced me to see his side because his plan gave us way more space.
He started by locating the studs with a stud finder, then used a level with a laser to mark the shelf locations.
He also had to work around our security system box and a galvanized pipe. I can tell you he wasn’t thrilled about either one.
(Those beige blobs on the wall? We removed some hooks there, but I saved them for a future project!)
The shelving required notching around that galvanized pipe for the security box. I’m glad he was handling it because I would’ve just said, “Forget about it!”
This closet has seen a few wallpapers over the years, and you can see that our DIYs are far from perfect. There’s even a gap in one corner that I once planned to cover with quarter round…but we never got around to it.
We managed to condense a small pantry, a free-standing cabinet, and two lazy susans into this one large pantry. Things are changing here at the cottage…at our own pace. As they say, slow and steady wins the race.
So, next time you feel like your home doesn’t measure up, remember: you make it home, not someone else.
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Cara
Your pantry looks great!
ReplyDeleteThank you Cathy, I just decided to share it as is. Sometimes life isn't as perfect as we wish it were, and why feel bad about it? Embrace it!
DeleteHi Cara! Your hubby did such a fabulous job adding shelves to make a pantry! Love how you organized everything! You are right, slow and steady wins the race. I would love to add wood shelves like that to our pantry but it's not in the budget right now! It's on the list though, we'll get it done someday! Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThank you Donna, I will have to tell him, that will make him feel good. I thought he did a really good job too. Notching out around that galvanized pipe was a difficult task on the brackets and shelves. I am happy with the pantry now, it's no longer a wasted kitchen closet.
DeleteYour pantry turned out really cute!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Susan! I am happy with the way it turned it. We will keep plugging away at it.
DeleteLove the way your pantry came together, Cara. It looks so, so good. Your husband did an excellent job not only giving you a functional space but a purpose filled space too! Thank you for the gentle reminder its ok not to have a Pinterest worthy home. My home is a work in process too! Hugs, CoCo
ReplyDeleteYour home is gorgeous CoCo! We have been working on a little slice of heaven for several years now, and I still sometimes struggle with how I want that kitchen to look. He says I cannot get it done until I figure it all out because I change my mind so often. It's true, but darn it, I am so ready for it to be completed. It touched me when hubs made that comment, and so I decided his work needed to be shared, and so what if sometimes we do not have the perfect space. We love our home, quirks and all.
DeleteI love that you shared 'reality' Cara. The pantry looks great and the important thing is it works for you! Don't worry, you'll get that kitchen done - in your own time and the way you want it to be!
ReplyDeleteThank you Ann. I think it is important for folks to know our homes are not perfect, sometimes they only see what we would like for them to see. We have been working on our home for several years getting to where we are now. One more room to go and it's the biggest! I just want to get it right so we can love our kitchen, finally!
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