As you prepare to sit down with your friends and families for this blessed Thanksgiving Day, keep in mind what this holiday means. It began all those years ago as a day to give thanks, thankful for the harvest and another year's end which would lead to a new year and new beginnings.
We may not always have what we desire in life, but sometimes we need to be thankful for what we do have. Our futures are not written in stone, sometimes challenges and difficult situations are thrown at us, but that does not mean we should give up. No, in my opinion, quite the opposite. Sometimes it is during these challenging times in our lives we learn what we are made of, and how to become stronger people.
Put yourself out there, meet new people, learn what others are doing, what challenges they face, how different your life is from another's. It is during those times, we learn what we have experienced is sometimes not as bad as what another has experienced.
Something I have always tried to do is put myself in someone else's shoes. What hardships do they face? How difficult would it be to overcome these challenges? Is there something I can do to help?
When I worked with persons with disabilities all those years ago, I was thoughtful in my approach in working with each person. I looked at the person, not the disability. Whether we want to admit it or not, we all have dis-abilities. Maybe not in the literal sense of physical or mental disabilities, but there are things that hold each of us back.
I cannot carry a tune, or do headstands, or a cartwheel for that matter, and then there are some days I cannot walk and chew gum at the same time (yes, I am a klutz), but it doesn't stop me from trying to put my best foot forward each and every day.
I enjoy offering an ear to listen, giving compliments to build self confidence in others, offering knowledge I have others may not. I just call it being a good citizen, something I wish more of us could do. It seems in the tech world, people feel more comfortable tearing down one another, and sending negative vibes out into the world, so my challenge to you is to lend a helping hand. People tend to think this means bringing out their checkbooks, but no, that is not what I mean at all.
We are stronger together than we are a part. That is all I am saying or hope for. See how you can help a neighbor through a tough time, a friend, a coworker, a member of your church. Sometimes we talk the talk, but can we walk the walk? I sure hope so.
To kick off this Thanksgiving Day, I am sharing my attempt at a charcuterie board! I have always wanted to make one, and so I did. It may not be the beautiful ones I have seen out there on the internet, but I am just a regular person like yourself who enjoys sharing ideas, projects, even the fails because I think it makes us normal, an every day person, your neighbor, or your friend. No special talents here... unless we want to talk about my special talent at thinking I can do all the things when in reality, I can do some of the things.
I have no team behind me writing my posts for me, or a team who works on my home (I wish!), or a person who takes my photos (I am sure you can tell). I am just me, a regular ole gal who lives in a smaller community, in a simple cozy cottage with many lofty dreams. I am a, what you see is what you get type of gal. No smoke and mirrors, nothing too fancy pants even though I love all things fancy pants.
I am thankful for you following along with me, for friends, old and new, my family, and our rascally pup. I had no idea what would become of this little blog of ours, but I am thankful, big or small, whether you are here for the photos, the ideas, the projects, or even my oddball rants, and writings. I will say I am pretty excited if you are here for the writing though, that makes my day, my month, my year!
Lofty dreams is how I got here, so let's keep those dreams a float and continue making, and creating, and sharing, and coming together in this vintage style gal world we have created. We thank you, even the pup laying at my feet who thinks everyone in the world knows who he is and loves him, we all thank you for your readership and community. Without you, there would not be a reason for this blog.
And now, gobble till you wobble folks... my long winded and awaited charcuterie board! Now, you had to know I was going to do something off the wall, right?